Let the adventures begin!

Hi, I’m Angie J. Gray—author, speaker, “Gigi,” and childhood trauma survivor turned children’s book writer. As a little girl, I didn’t have the words for my emotions. Now I write stories to help children find theirs. Inspired by children’s real-life experiences, my books create safe spaces for big feelings, healing, and hope. Since feelings can be hard to spot, each page of my books hides one or more special items for your child to find. Welcome to the world of Real Big-Deal Feelings.

Dear Parents and Educators,

As an advocate for emotional expression, I’m passionate about helping children embrace their feelings. Kassia's Real Big-Deal Feelings, the first in a series, is designed to spark conversations and create safe spaces where kids can name and share their emotions. By teaching children that all feelings are okay, we empower them to express themselves with words, not just actions. While we may guide their behavior, their emotions deserve to be heard and validated.

Research shows that children whose feelings are acknowledged grow into more emotionally resilient adults. For example, studies from the Greater Good Science Center highlight that validating emotions reduces tantrums and fosters self-regulation. When we dismiss or invalidate feelings, children may struggle to cope, leading to more outbursts.

You can make a difference by listening, naming emotions together, and using tools like Kassia's Real Big-Deal Feelings to start meaningful conversations. Join me in helping kids shine bright by embracing their big feelings!